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Nervous System Regulation

What it means to down-regulate, and how you practice when you are stuck on high.

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In Plain Language

What Regulation Means

Your autonomic nervous system moves you between gears. One revs you up to deal with a threat. Another settles you down to rest, digest, and connect. Regulation is your ability to move between them.

It is one of the things Tatiana most wants clients to leave with: effective skills to understand and down-regulate their nervous system and their mental health symptoms.

How It Can Feel

Topic	Revved Up	Shut Down	Settled
Body	Racing heart, tight chest, shallow breath	Heavy, numb, tired	Slower breath, loose shoulders
Mind	Scanning, racing, irritable	Foggy, blank, far away	Able to think and choose
With Others	Snapping, arguing	Withdrawn, quiet	Present

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Skills You Can Try

Lengthen your exhale for a few minutes
Name five things you can see, four you can hear
Press your feet into the floor and notice the weight
Step outside and move your body for ten minutes
Tell one safe person what is going on

Under Pressure

Why It Is a Practice

Skills practiced only in a crisis tend not to be there when you need them. Practiced on an ordinary Tuesday, they become easier to reach. Some of them will not suit you, and that is useful information too.